Last night while on twitter talking about relationships, I
replied to the prolific and wonderful Sophia Nelson’s tweets with a thought I was most recently enlightened to. It is the unfortunate sentiments of some
women after surviving a broken heart with the previous relationship to live by
the motto of,” I will never love the next as hard as I love the ex!” As for me, my motto is, “ I’m going to love the next even greater than I ever
loved the ex because I know and love myself now!”
After coming out of an abusive relationship and loving a person
more than we loved ourselves, we know now what our limitations and boundaries
consist of. We know now our capacity for loving but respecting ourselves in the
process should not be viewed as a threat to the other individual. God did not
create any of us to be a floor mat, but a loving and helpful compliment to one
another. We know we are worth more than
gold and should be treated as such! We
know now that when someone keeps saying a relationship is fifty-fifty it’s is a pure lie because this statement
really means they only want to give fifty percent in the relationship . A relationship is made up of each person giving
one-hundred percent at all times!
Basically, if we are not going to put our heart and soul
into a relationship, it’s really not worth our time as well as the other
individuals time and effort also. Whether
we are a woman or a man, we should all feel free to take a break in between
relationships to re-evaluate where we are emotionally and psychologically
before going into the next relationship.
Making the next person pay for the ignorance of the last is a pure sign
that we are not ready to commit totally and continue on loves journey.
Remember the race is not given to the swift but to the one
that endures until the end. Whether its
life or love run this race with all of your might!
Peace and Blessings Until Next Time!
Love,
Danica
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