In your everyday travels have you noticed recently, no matter
what you either view online or purchase there is always a “Terms of Agreement” page to sign or check before
proceeding. This “Terms of Agreement”
page is to notify the individual user or buyer of all the regulations in a contractual-obligation you will have to agree with in order to enjoy the benefits of a product.
As women, we are one of the most important “commodities” ever. I believe that we as individuals should have our very own “Terms of
Agreement” clause when engaging in relationships with people in our everyday
lives. We should have regulations and
standards for other individuals to deal with us on. If one of these rules or “terms of agreements”
are broken while in our presence, we should have no reservations dissolving any
relationship with the person until our terms of agreement are met with zero
compromises.
Today, basic individual respect for each other has wilted
away in society. For women to maintain what we have left will take a personal “zero-tolerance”
policy implemented in each individual consisting of her own values and morals. What are your standards for dealing with
individuals? What are your term
breakers? What agreements are
uncompromising to who you are and who you want to become as a woman?
As for me I only have
four basic terms and agreements;
1) Talk to me with respect. One disrespectful
remark and all bets are off. First lesson learned in grade school is if you
want respect you have to give it. We have all attended grade school at least!
2) Be positive. Life is too short for negativity. There is something positive in everyone. Find
it!
3) Show love and receive love. Tolerance and understanding is the basis of
love. The lack of love is what kills a
person’s spirit.
4) No continual drama will be tolerated. If I see that you love drama and can’t
operate in anything else but drama itself…truly my term breaker!
As women, we have to remember that God did not put the word “WELCOME”
on our foreheads. We were never to become a walking door mat. On the contrary, He stamped the word“WELCOME”
in our hearts to love, nurture and heal those around us. Peace and Blessings until next time!
With Love,
Danica
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