If you
are a woman, than you have only read or viewed the movie, “How Stella Got Her
Groove Back”, no less than four million times.
However, I have actually, like so many other women, came across a moment
of needing to get “my groove back” much like “Stella”.
Sometimes after suffering a loss,
you often began to look for affirmation and happiness in other individuals.
However, you are soon to realize that true happiness is not found in the
affirmations of someone else but it is always found within yourself. Was getting my “groove” back a nice distraction
from the harsh realities of life? Of
course!(smile). However, like any other vice or drug of choice, the
search for happiness presents only a temporary interference until you realize
the core of your problem is still there!
The time and energy that we put
into “getting our groove back” to get us through a lonely or rough patch or
two could be better spent on self-enhancement.
Go on a retreat, read a book, or even meditate on the fullness of Jesus!
Take some time to learn what you want and need out of your future
relationships. Take some time to even
discover your gifts and talents. I discovered I am a writing diva machine! Learn to
love and embrace the person you are during a relationship hiatus.
I’m only relaying advice to you from my past experiences to save you well spent time and
energy. Looking to others for my
completeness was well misguided. I should have been looking toward myself and
God all the while. Today, I am so much
stronger and wiser. Living and learning
to do better every single day is definitely what I am “grooving” to now! Peace
and Blessings!
Love You Much
Danica
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